Ethics:
“a
system of moral principles; with respect to the rightness and wrongness of
certain actions and to the goodness or badness of the motives and ends of such
actions,” (http://dictionary.reference.com).
Ethical principles are
important for every organisation because employees need to follow the same
standards, regardless of personal values and different cultural backgrounds.
Without ethical principles to follow in the workplace, employees make decisions
based on their own values, and different values can clash, so management needs
ethical principles to set standards for employees (http://everydaylife.globalpost.com).
Sexual relations between employees are
something that is regarded as unethical.
They can be interpreted as sexual harassment and become defamatory, as
in the case of Cosatu General Secretary Zwelinzima Vavi:
Sexual
harassment: “unwanted conduct of a sexual nature,”
(http://www.labourprotect.co.za).
According to (http://www.citypress.co.za),
Vavi was accused of sexually assaulting a female colleague who then demanded R2
million for the problem to go away.
This part alone raises the
question whether these allegations have weight at all. Why would she blackmail
him if she was raped?
City Press also stated that
Vavi admitted to having to having consensual sex with the complainant in a
Cosatu office in January this year. “I have to be truthful to the public, I
have to deal with my family for not being faithful and it is a difficult
matter. I apologise to everyone for having had an affair while I have a perfect
marriage. I shouldn’t have done that, it was a bad error on my side, I
shouldn’t have had a relationship at all,” Vavi told City Press.
This is exactly why Sexual
relations with a colleague are a bad idea. It seems exciting at the time, maybe
even beneficial in terms of getting a promotion or recognition of some sort,
but in the end someone is bound to find out or get hurt. Such relationships are
hard to manage, especially if one is a well-known figure in society.
Maintaining a good reputation should be paramount.
Although the development of
interpersonal relations is inevitable, they can result in extra-marital affairs
which could destroy families and marriages. Some companies have developed
consensual office relationship policies which allow consensual romances. The
policies stipulate boundaries and provide processes for co-workers to complain
or express concerns (http://www.slop.org).
I say NO to sexual relations
in the workplace. Making it “okay” would be like adding oil to fire.
Sources consulted
City Press. 2013. Vavi in ‘rape, blackmail’ scandal [online].
<Available>http://www.citypress.co.za/politics/vavi-in-rape-blackmail-scandal/
Globalpost. 2013. Ethical principles in the workplace [online].
<Available>http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/ethical-principles-workplace-2657.html
Labour
Protect. 2013. Code of good practice-
sexual harassment [online]. <Available>http://www.labourprotect.co.za/sexual_harassement.htm
Society For Industrial &
Organisational Psychology. 2013. Romance
in the office is common [online]. <Available>http://www.slop.org/Media/News/office_romance.aspx
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